Salams,

I have been pretty busy for a long time. Not so busy at work. But always occupied. Sometimes over occupied but never too busy to reach home early. Yet, I do not seem to have enough time to sneak peek my blog to scribble a line or time. That explains the silence. At times, rasa macam rugi lak. Am supposed to jot down this first year of marriage, so that later I can turn back the leaf to cherish the sweet and sometimes bitter memories that I share with my dearest hubby. Yang lagi ruginya, I have not been snapping much pics with hubby .. Alahai must put this habit back on track lah..

Anyways, life is not the same as it was before. That is no doubt. I have two mommies and two daddies  Each with a different set of character. If I treat any differently, the other would feel more or less hurt. I guess, these are among the things that couples must bear with, if they're still living with their parents or parents in laws. It would probably be much different if you lived on your own. But considering their age.. aging.. it is not so wise to live far apart from time. Decision time huh?

Entahla.. Allah has everything well planned for me. I have np right to grumble, instead I should act rationnally and iron out all matters maturely. And I pray that I am able to please everybody, and at the same time feel happy with my own chosen path.

Anyways, here's our first raya together's pic. Not very nicely taken. But at least we have something to brag about to our grandchildren later... hehe.. Salam EidulFitri all.. May Allah bless each and everyone of us, and may we be better today than yesterday but may we become even better tomorrow, insya Allah.

Assalamualaikum,

It has been awhile.. Why??

I have sort of lost interest on blogging. I guess when I started blogging I was actually searching for myself, searching for thoughts to enlighten my idle mind. Was that it?

Perhaps now that I am married and I have shared almost everything with my husband, I seem to have drained out things from my mind to be blogged about? Is that so? See.. even that seems difficult for me to answer now. Uncertain me..

Anyway, went out with my parents few weeks ago. And snapped these? I totally forgot about it until I flipped thru the captured images from my digicam. Wonder what lingers in the mind of this car owner.. Look.. the car is padlocked, but it is not really locked.. the padlock simply hangs on the handle of the door. Ape ke halnye?? hehehe..

And here's for memory sake, a picture of myself and husband during a cousin's solemnisation ceremony kat Masjid Putrajaya.

Alamak malulah.. Look at me, am sooo.. chubby now. It has been exactly 7 months today.. Cepatnya masa berlalu.. And we're still so far apart.. like over 400km away from each other.. But that only strenthen the tie.. so far so good, Alhamdulillah..

When Allaah Subhaanahu wa Taala , in His Infinite Wisdom, tests us with a situation that we think is  difficult or takes away something that in our mind was good for us, we need to remember that perhaps it may not be so. Perhaps if we had continued in our way, it might have been harmful for us and whateverAllah decreed for us is actually better for us, for He is All-Wise and All-Knowing.

Allaah says:

"…and it may be that you dislike a thing which is good for you and that you like a thing which is bad for you. Allaah knows but you do not know." (Surah Baqarah: 216)

An important note, An idle mind is the shaytaan's workshop. As such Allah, please guide me accordingly into becoming a pious wife, an obedient daughter and a blessed Muslim.. Amin.. And please surround me with your blessings and all the blessed people.. Amin..

“And when someone puts all his trust in Allah, He will be enough for him.” (Surah at-Talaaq:3)

p/s: Tomorrow is Mama's 62nd birthday, please Allah give her grandchild from her only daughter.. will that be too much to ask for? Forgive me Allah..